The Wilderness Journey, Words of Endurance

A Wilderness Run

by Melanie Cooper

For the past five years, Melanie Cooper has battled a cancerous tumor in her arm. She has faced the wilderness of pain, fatigue, and uncertainty. During the summer of 1995, she could take no more. Physically, emotionally, and spiritually exhausted, she was beginning, as she says, “to lose hope that these powerful medicines would destroy the tumor without destroying me first.” So she took a six-month break from chemotherapy in order to rest and restore her health. Her health-restoration plan included running with Betsy, a friend from nursing school.

On our first run in September, I could barely finish two miles. I stopped several times. Betsy could have labeled me a “hopeless case” and called it quits, but she didn’t. We continued to run and soon began training for a 10K (6.2 miles) race scheduled for early November. A few days before the race, I learned that Betsy would not be able to run with me. But I was determined to run, even if I had to do it by myself.

When I awoke on the day of the race, I was surprised to see blizzard-like conditions. As I joined the pack of runners at the starting line, the wind howled eerily. It whipped through my layers of sweat-shirt, turtleneck, lined running warm-ups, running spandex, and ear muffs. The starting line was just a line scraped into the accumulating snow. No one cheered us from the sidelines—it was too cold. It was just us crazy runners and the man with the starting gun.

With the gunshot, we took off. Thick snow splashed beneath our fast-paced feet. The wind, although very cold, was traveling with us the first two miles. The gravel trail was lined with snow-kissed trees. It was breathtaking to see how God could make something so beautiful.

For a while another runner ran at my pace. We chatted and laughed—mostly about running—but she ran ahead and I was left alone. Soon I rounded a corner and met the bone-chilling wind. Suddenly I realized that the race would be difficult. My long hair formed into what felt like icicles and my cheeks became numb. Visibility was very poor. I squinted into the distance, seeking the flashing light that marked the next corner. I realized that the course yet to come would be even tougher, but I believed I could do it.

Gradually the tall trees lining the road became sparse. I was getting colder. A runner who had been some distance behind me suddenly appeared at my heels. As she sped up to pass me, she yelled through the wind, “This is the hardest race I have ever run.” I wanted to quit, but I kept following her.

It seemed that the wind blew harder across every farmer’s field that I ran beside and over every hill I crested. Sometimes I closed my eyes to avoid the pelting snow. I barely saw the two bundled-up people at the side of the road who yelled out my time and waved two fingers in the air: two miles to the finish line!

With wide-open fields on both sides of the road, the course became even more difficult. The wind whipped wildly, the snow blew ferociously. I couldn’t even see the runner in front of me. I wanted with all of my heart to cry, but the tears would not come. I kept telling myself to be strong.

Just when I thought I would surely pass out in the road and become Frosty’s wife, I rounded a corner. The wind was at my back! With no one else around, I became my own cheering section. With each stride I shouted, “Run!” or “You can do it!” or “C’mon me!” or “You’re almost there!” I flew down the road, feeling great.

Then I rounded the next corner to fight a terrible wind. That last mile was the hardest I have ever had to endure. The race had become so much more than just the run that I had anticipated; it had become a parallel of my life’s journey with God. Cars with the people who had been at the mile markers slowly passed me. When I glanced behind me, I saw the rescue truck at my heels, its four-way flashers on. My spirits sank. I was the last runner. I felt really alone, so I started talking to God. I kept saying, “Please, God . . . Please don’t leave me.” I couldn’t hear Him answer me, and I began to wonder where He was. I kept running and continued talking to Him, begging Him to help me and give me strength to persevere.

At that point, my eyes closed. How my feet guided me I still don’t know. With each tug of the wind I swayed from side to side in the road. I began to wonder when the rescue people would give up on me and snatch me into their truck. I worried that they would not let me finish the race. Loneliness engulfed me. I kept asking God not to leave me. I just wanted someone to run with me—any-one—and I knew that God must be there even though I couldn’t see or feel Him.

Suddenly I saw two people at the next corner. I was almost done! One of them approached me with a big smile, saying, “That can’t be Melanie Cooper running the 10K of her life . . . It is!” He was a fellow runner who had crossed the finish line long before me. My feet kept trodding, but I began to sob. It wasn’t so much the fact that I was tired and cold as it was that God had heard my cries and sent this person to encourage me.

“This is so hard,” I gasped.

“I know,” he answered as he began running beside me. “This part is a little tough, but you’ve already come six miles. You’re almost done. See that person ahead bundled up in blankets? As soon as you round that corner, you’re going to feel like Superman with the wind at your back. You’re just going to fly over that finish line!”

He was right. I did cross the finish line, and I did feel like Superman. Five people waited in the blowing snow. They didn’t give up on me even though I was the last runner. As I finished the race, tears streamed down my face. My body had completed a 10K, but my soul felt like it had run a marathon.

Recently that race has come to mind many times. Following my six-month respite from chemotherapy, my doctors ordered a more aggressive program to resolve the desmoid tumor in my arm. So in January I found myself at the starting line of a new semester in college and a new round of treatments. Unsure of what I would encounter, I began the race before me. I was well-conditioned for the race of college life, but nothing could have prepared me for the forceful wind of aggressive chemotherapy.

For the first few weeks, God was like a fellow runner that I could talk with easily as we made our way down the trail together. At the point where I realized that the course would be tougher, I could barely hear the encouraging voices of others. But I believed God was beside me, and I gave myself little pep talks.

But by March, during my third round of chemo, I felt the full force of the wind against me. I had lost all of my long, golden-brown hair. I was weak and nauseated. My class work and nurse’s training seemed overwhelming. I didn’t know how I could go on. I wondered if I should drop out of college even though I was finishing my junior year. For the first time since the race began, I felt utterly alone and wondered where God was.

When it seemed that I couldn’t go on, the race became even more demanding. I was admitted to the hospital with a serious infection. During my eight-day stay, doctors ordered an MRI to assess the size of the tumor. While the machine made its noisy racket, I turned another corner. Like a little child approaching her daddy, I took all the desires of my heart and voiced them to God. “Please don’t leave my side,” I prayed. “I know that my healing ultimately must come from you, not from my efforts, not from physicians, nurses, or chemotherapy alone. I know that you alone are in control, but please, I want you to heal me.”

That simple act of pouring out the desires of my heart o God and choosing to rely on His strength made a difference. The race has not become easier. I don’t know what is going to happen to my arm—what winds and blowing snows I have yet to run through—but I know that, just as He has promised, God is with me. No matter what trials I face, I can call out to Him for help. I can place my hope in Him because He will renew my strength.

I’m still in the midst of my chemotherapy treatments, and I cannot see the finish line yet. At times I feel like I am running against the wind; I feel so weak and so weary that I can’t even cry. Sometimes I just want to quit; I feel as if I cannot pick my feet up to take another step.

But recently another runner has stepped out from the sidelines to run with me. It is Dave Dravecky, a more experienced runner. Having run this race before me, he is encouraging me not to give up. His presence helps me remember that God is beside me as well. When God runs the race of life with us, it isn’t that the race won’t be hard or that the distance won’t be long, but He knows the course we are running and will help us run. With that encouragement, I keep going, looking ahead, hoping to fly across the finish line.

He gives strength to the weary, and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary; and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint (Isaiah 40:29-31).