Everyone grieves differently, whether it be through tears, pain, or anger. For Dave, grieving involved learning to talk about the pain he was experiencing. The more detailed he was in expressing his pain and suffering in relationship to his losses, the easier it was for him to cope. Although grieving helped him deal with his losses, it still didn’t take away the pain. But grieving did take him to a different place. It eventually brought him to a place of healing, to a place where joy became a part of his life again.    The hidden gift in the process of grieving is being able to transition to that place where even though it still hurts, the memories also bring joy. Psalm 30:5 says, “Weeping may endure for a night, But joy comes in the morning.”